When is too much praise, too much?
I was listening to the Jauron press conference from yesterday and could not help but think that he's actually too much of a nice guy. I mean he always praises his team both offense and defense even when they fail miserably, he always find something positive to say. Don't get me wrong I think being positive is great but I also think that he over does it and it's probably detrimental to him.
I definitely understand why the players love him so much because no matter what happens not only does he stand up for them he goes out of his way to praise them. Like the way he praised Byrd yesterday. The kid is a rookie and needs to continue to develop (a lot) and he has the potential of being a real super star. I fear that all this praise might go to his head and actually be detrimental in his development. And then again with McGee, Jauron bent over backwards to make sure everyone understood just how special McGee is. It's too much. I listen to him and I really don't feel that anything is broken but yet we've barely won the last two weeks.
Praise is fine but in moderation. What Jauron lacks is the ability to convey his dissatisfaction but in a positive way, he needs to show the players of this team that he is not content with the way we are playing and that he expects better, that he expects improvement in certain areas. If I'm a player the message that I get from my head coach is continue to work hard because that's all that matters and he is quite content with the way things are.
He made a comment: "Anyway you get 20pts, anyway that you can get a win is fine". I understand the statement but not week in and week out. If your only chance of winning is to hope you find someway to win, then you have a problem.
I strongly believe that Jauron would be doing himself, the team and the rest of us a big favor if he could just learn to be able to convey some level of dissatisfaction when things are not perfect (which they rarely are in the Bills case). I'm not suggesting to completely change his DNA but simply to make a few adjustments to it. Tell them when things are not right and minimize the un-needed praising because it probably does more harm than not.
This FanPost was written by a registered user of Buffalo Rumblings. Its views do not necessarily reflect the views of Rumblings' editorial staff, but are just as valued as our own.
0 recs |
25 comments
Comments
Do players on the Bills actually listen to Dick Jauron’s press conferences? I’d guess they’re doing other things, like hitting the showers, or driving home to their families.
It’s too much praise if we’re assuming that Jauron has the same things to say to his team behind closed doors as he does when he addresses the media. My assumption has always been that Jauron defends his team publically and actually coaches them when we’re not listening, which happens to be like 99% of the time. You’re assuming that since Jauron doesn’t convey dissatisfaction during press conferences and doesn’t rip into guys on the sidelines that he’s never critical of his players and I can’t imagine that an NFL head coach could actually be that bad.
“Anyway you get 20pts, anyway that you can get a win is fine”. I understand the statement but not week in and week out.
Does he say that when they score 20 points, but lose? Because unless he does, to me, it looks like the kind of thing that most coaches would say after an ugly win.
I signed up for Second Life about a year ago. Back then my life was so great that I literally wanted a second one. In my Second Life I was also a paper salesman and I was also named Dwight. Absolutely everything was the same. Except I could fly. - Dwight Schrute
by kaisertown on Oct 27, 2009 12:45 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
You know Kaiser, for once I tried to write a post in which I wanted to point out something without ripping into the guy, which I think I did a fairly good job with. I actually had something constructive to say about Jauron and you automatically assume the worse!
doesn’t rip into guysDid I say that? No because my post was about the dangers of over-praising and not being able to find constructive ways of pointing out failures that need to be improved upon.
I have nothing left to say, these Bills have sucked me dry of any hope. Loosing to a team that completes 2-17 for 23y with 1 INT, that is beyond pitiful!
by keysh67 on Oct 27, 2009 1:42 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Sorry Keysh, that wasn’t my intention at all. I wasn’t trying to criticize you for criticizing Jauron and my bad if it came across that way.
I do think the Jauron sideline demeanor is relevant here because it’s pretty much the only Jauron that we see. We see him on the sidelines and we see him when the media talks to him, but that’s all we get to see. So I think that people are looking at Jauron on the sidelines and listening to his press conferences and assume that what you see is what you get. And I don’t know what Jauron is like behind closed doors, but I have a hard time believing that he’s telling his players the same things he’s telling the media. When the media asks players if they’ve heard this or that quote, they almost always say no, the reporter tells them the quote and asks for a response. I don’t think the players are listening to what Jauron is saying to the press after games.
And I think that football is built around personal responsibility. Anybody who has ever played a team sport knows the pressures of playing for teammates and not letting the team down. When a player screws up, they know it and they feel bad. And as long as we are assuming that the Bills coaches actually coach the team, then I think they have to be correcting players after watching film with them and working on the scheme and technique mistakes they made the week before.
I signed up for Second Life about a year ago. Back then my life was so great that I literally wanted a second one. In my Second Life I was also a paper salesman and I was also named Dwight. Absolutely everything was the same. Except I could fly. - Dwight Schrute
by kaisertown on Oct 27, 2009 4:13 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
I think he probably doesn't want to discourage them.
The reality is the Bills have not found a consistent way to win yet this year, so I think he is probably telling the players, “Look, we will figure out a way to win, but for now do whatever you have to in order to get the W.”
Anyway, just some outside perspective on it.
"An open mind is like a fortress with it's gates unbarred and unguarded."
The ROSENFAIL : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CAKAKE-uq-8&feature=related
by TexansForever on Oct 27, 2009 1:08 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
i don’t have any issue with Jauron and his press conferences. are they ever note-worthy, no, but that’s intention on his part. Jauron probably isn’t as nice in a setting where the press isn’t allowed (practices).
my guess is the position coaches are the one’s who dole out tough love when needed. they are the ones who know the players in and out.
by gatornation on Oct 27, 2009 1:12 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
I agree
I think the reason the players like Jauron is because he doesn’t “air” his dirty laundry to us and the press. I know it frustrates most of you guys out there who want there coach to scream and yell at every player when he screws up but I’m not sure what that accomplishes. There are a few coaches that this approach can work for but more often than not it backfires and it almost never works for a long tenured coach. If players don’t trust there coach to handle things in a “professional” manner then they won’t play for him. Like him or not these players play for Jauron and his staff week in and week out. The results aren’t what we are looking for but the effort is most certainly there.
by Honestabe75 on Oct 27, 2009 1:39 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
I’m guessing he has critical things to say to them in private, and in the locker room. That is probably another reason players like him, is because is not prone to public bashing, and that is probably another reason the players don’t throw him under the bus as well.
He is a teacher and a mentor….and while his coaching on gameday is questionable, and for whatver reason we are playing at a low level….injuries?….I think Dicky J does criticize his players in a mature and dignified manner.
Good Luck With Your Firings Mr. Wilson….Go Bills!
by killascript on Oct 27, 2009 1:38 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
S T O P I T Already!!
This post was not about his press conferences nor him needing to scream at anybody.
And by the way, if a coach says one thing to the media and another to the players then he’s just a lyar and a 2-face. There needs to be some consistency in the message.
I have nothing left to say, these Bills have sucked me dry of any hope. Loosing to a team that completes 2-17 for 23y with 1 INT, that is beyond pitiful!
by keysh67 on Oct 27, 2009 1:50 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
This post was not about his press conferences
Actually, it was. You both specifically mentioned his press conferences, and anything that you and I hear him say about his player is said during a press conference as well. Anything he says publicly is just fluff. Tell me what he says to his guys behind closed doors and get back to me on this.
Buffalo Rumblings. On Twitter.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. --Wayne Grezky" --Michael Scott
by Brian Galliford on Oct 27, 2009 2:10 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
You guys all assume that he is Mr tough guy behind closed doors – but I don’t buy it. Jauron strikes me like a guy with an extreme amount of integrity, which leads me to think that what he says publicly is not that far off what he says behind closed doors.
Tell me what he says to his guys behind closed doors and get back to me on this.So for all those who think he is different behind closed doors – that’s as much speculation as what I am saying..
Anything he says publicly is just fluff.
I disagree. I think it’s damaging if he over praises guys because they watch the press conferences each week, whether it is live or off the web, they definitely watch them. Jauron would do well to find ways of positively showing some discontent in the areas that we struggle in instead of insinuating that their effort is all that matters.
I have nothing left to say, these Bills have sucked me dry of any hope. Loosing to a team that completes 2-17 for 23y with 1 INT, that is beyond pitiful!
by keysh67 on Oct 27, 2009 2:21 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
No
I said he is probably not the same guy outside of the publics eye, that doesn’t mean he goes nuts in practice. you can’t teach in that type of manner and tone all the time. like I said the position coaches are the guys who dole out the tough love.
by gatornation on Oct 27, 2009 2:24 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
You guys all assume that he is Mr tough guy behind closed doors – but I don’t buy it.
Actually, my only assumption is that we don’t know what he’s like behind closed doors.
Buffalo Rumblings. On Twitter.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. --Wayne Grezky" --Michael Scott
by Brian Galliford on Oct 27, 2009 2:38 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
But don’t you think the man that shows no emotion in press conferences is just that in every facet of his life? In the locker room, at home, on the field… I’m sure it’s all the same.
They are hard to play but not hard to beat.
- Mike Lombardi on the Buffalo Bills
by Sluss88 on Oct 27, 2009 2:44 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
I’m sure it’s all the same.
It’s an easy assumption to make, but I’m not into assumptions.
Buffalo Rumblings. On Twitter.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. --Wayne Grezky" --Michael Scott
by Brian Galliford on Oct 27, 2009 2:51 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
but I’m not into assumptions.
It’s hardly an assumption. :-)
They are hard to play but not hard to beat.
- Mike Lombardi on the Buffalo Bills
by Sluss88 on Oct 27, 2009 3:38 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
No, it’s definitely an assumption.
Buffalo Rumblings. On Twitter.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. --Wayne Grezky" --Michael Scott
by Brian Galliford on Oct 27, 2009 4:12 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Supposedly, behind closed doors, Bill Parcells is a very sociable and funny guy.
And it’s not that we think Jauron has an entirely different demeanor. I simply have a hard time thinking that this team from top to bottom don’t hold each other accountable for poor play.
I signed up for Second Life about a year ago. Back then my life was so great that I literally wanted a second one. In my Second Life I was also a paper salesman and I was also named Dwight. Absolutely everything was the same. Except I could fly. - Dwight Schrute
by kaisertown on Oct 27, 2009 4:15 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Is the sun going to rise tomorrow? Will you live to see it?
We all make assumptions. As far as Jauron goes, you believe he will not be the head coach next season, correct?
"Are the Bills better than we think, or do they just suck the life out of most teams they play and drag them down to their level? - oompaloompa
by Joe P. on Oct 27, 2009 11:23 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
No, I don’t.
Buffalo Rumblings. On Twitter.
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. --Wayne Grezky" --Michael Scott
by Brian Galliford on Oct 28, 2009 6:46 AM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
As there is no way to prove that......I assume that is an assumption on your part :-)
"Are the Bills better than we think, or do they just suck the life out of most teams they play and drag them down to their level? - oompaloompa
by Joe P. on Oct 28, 2009 7:26 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Jauron most likely IS THE SAME in the locker room as the Press Conferences
And that is exactly why the players love him.
What Jauron lacks is the ability to convey his dissatisfaction but in a positive way, he needs to show the players of this team that he is not content with the way we are playing and that he expects better, that he expects improvement in certain areas.
I couldn’t agree more! While watching the press conference, all I could think about is how he should be stating the positive, but then say “but we got to do a lot of things better to beat the teams ahead.” His team has pulled out two ugly road victories, and hey we’ll take it, but he needs to change his attitude stat. You don’t lead teams into the playoffs with the attitude portrayed in the statement below… It is basically reinforcing mediocre performances, and the Bills need to snap out of that mediocre nightmare they have been in the past decade if they think they are ever going to make the playoffs!
“Anyway you get 20pts, anyway that you can get a win is fine”
They are hard to play but not hard to beat.
- Mike Lombardi on the Buffalo Bills
by Sluss88 on Oct 27, 2009 2:24 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
No, and you don't lead teams to the playoffs through the media, either.
Jauron’s pressers are comical exercises in vague vanilla generalities, yes. I pretty much get a laugh out of the few I occasionaly watch. Why watch them? They are a necessary evil, and much like Belicheck, he treats them as such.
Is this because he is no more than a vague vanilla general, or simply sees no constructive rationale for discussing it through the media? Dissatisfied fans believe the former, so they look for evidence to support what they already think is reality, as flimsy and far fetched as it may be.
As a person who has spent a great deal of my career in marketing communications, and dealing with the media in a far less high profile, media saturated business than the NFL (green and yellow tractors), I can absolutely assure you that the way one speaks and conducts oneself in front of cameras and microphones, and the way one speaks and conducts oneself with colleagues, and people one is responsible for leading – for lack of better terms – are literally night and day. There is absolutely no legitimate comparison.
Will I be crestfallen if and when Jauron is canned? Nope, he’s had more than a fair chance and the results just aren’t there. But knashing teeth over presser tea leaves to find weaknesses in Jauron’s leadership abilities to further justify a canning is pretty silly.
by LeClaireBill on Oct 27, 2009 5:09 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
No Assumtions Here!
Its pretty simple gentlemen. He is one of the worst HC with over 50 games coached in the league ever just look at his overall record. Its just that simple there is no need to go back and forth, that’s why they keep track of those things so they can properly judge things. His terrible and we need to part ways with him eithier now or at the end of the season.
Rrrawrrrr, rrrawrrr like a dungeon dragon-Busta Ryhmes
by Moe_frm_B_ on Oct 27, 2009 3:15 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
go head correct my spelling assumptions
Rrrawrrrr, rrrawrrr like a dungeon dragon-Busta Ryhmes
by Moe_frm_B_ on Oct 27, 2009 3:16 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Don’t think anyone is going to disagree with you that he is not a very good HC, but he is certainly not the worst, the man has been consistently mediocre, been doing enough to get the teams to a decent but below average record but never really getting the team to improve enough to make the playoffs.
"Did you feel you did well against Lindland?" "
Hell no.. I wanted to break the law"
---Rampage
by TearsofaClown on Oct 27, 2009 11:52 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs

by 
























